Sunday, March 27, 2005

High school reunion at Oxford

Fridays
It was my sin that nailed him there. It was my cross He had to bear.

Our first bus trip out of London! After leisurely getting up and getting ready, we did our first overnight backpacking trip. All the way an hour and a half north to Oxford. There, my friend Dan P. from high school hosted us in student housing at St. Katherine’s College. Special thanks to Andrea for letting us be in her home when she wasn’t even there and for lending us her husband who was a wonderful tour guide. After a bike tour of the High Street and several of the more interesting streets, we ate dinner at The Head of the River, literally. We also met a couple of Canadians who came down and taught us a new board game. Even though Bree and I didn’t win, we still thoroughly enjoyed the game – Settlers of Rotan. So much in fact, if it hadn’t been one in the morning, we would have played another game right then.

Saturday
For the first time since we moved into our flat, we woke up in a bed other than our own. And did we ever wake up to a wonderful adventure. We explored a half dozen of the colleges at Oxford and climbed a very narrow staircase to the top of a tower to look out over a British College Station, if you will. Only the “New College” at Oxford is like 500 years old – and that’s probably a tad older than Zachary and Harrington.

We went to the covered market and we had our first pastey – a filled pastry that they apparently initially developed as a quick lunch for the farmers in the field. Kind of like a luxurious hot pocket that has real meat inside.

We learned a little bit about rowing – apparently in some races, all you’re trying to do is catch up to and “bump” the boat that’s ahead of you – and then they rub it in the face of their rivals the rest of the year.

And Dan P. is quite the chef, serving some wonderful filled pasta with his own sauce. The Canadians contributed apple crisp, yum yum, and of course brought the board game back.

And then it was back to our home – we have to gradually try being away longer. Whew – what a wonderful day. We apparently had the best weather that Oxford has seen in a while, so it was a great weekend for a day trip.

Thursday, March 24, 2005

Dreaming of work...

Sunday March 20

Church was good this morning – we heard from the two ladies that are going to Africa to do missions that we met at the church up the road a couple weeks ago, remember the 4 hour going away service? I assume you don’t, but if you really care you can read the blog until you find it.

When some of your lunch guests cancel, we figured it would be pretty easy to substitute a few new ones. Doing so changed the entire dynamic of our afternoon – as one of our guests said, we had half of the church nursery at our house. We had a wonderful time serving Stack’ems to seven guests – 3 of them under the age of 5. The pastor of our church and his wife are truly a wonderful couple and we enjoyed visiting with them, as well as two teenagers from the church. The kids – I think they had fun, between exploring our bedroom and flushing a candle down the toilet, how could you not? I think we’ll have the opportunity to return the favor here in a couple weeks… I may even take my own oversize candles.

We finished the day with a phone call to the 806 area code to catch up on all of the big news.

Monday
Late night at work. Sautéed mushrooms and fajitas for dinner – we were pretty proud of the meal we cooked. We’ve watched more episodes of friends since we got here than we ever did back in the states. It kind of reminds me of some of the people I work with…
So I’ve become more of an accountant than I ever intended to be. And I’m becoming more like Bree. When I thought of marriage being a relationship in which you share your dreams, I always thought that meant your aspirations and your goals and the things that seem far off that you might want to accomplish someday. But to Bree, it’s much more literal. When we wake up, she always shares her dreams. My dreams usually aren’t that vivid… but this morning I woke up and could remember a good 30 minutes worth of dreams. One of them involved Bree’s parents shipping us a cookbook that we got for the wedding that was composed of contributions from a lot of people, like a church or community cookbook or something. But in my dream, I was flipping through the book trying to add up all the numbers and see if they matched the total. In my profession we call it footing or casting a document. AAAAAGGGGHHH! How scary. It was a horrible nightmare. I’ve definitely been working too much.


Tuesday
Bree had to work late and was preparing for two more days of late nights, as her team has an Easter deadline and out of the six people on her team, two are going to Greece on Thursday and two are going to Russia on Thursday. Crunch time! But now, she knows to always plan a trip on long weekends so that she won’t get stuck doing extra work while everyone else is out of town.

Wednesday
Big day at work today – I got to go with the boss to a meeting. I had a very important position at the table, at which everyone else probably made six figures. I was the scribe. More work, not much excitement, until…

We have now seen the British Apprentice. Can someone please tell me if NBC literally sold the rights to a guy in London, because it is the EXACT same show. The multibillionaire (career in real estate too I believe) even points and says “You’re fired.” They even have some of the same job tasks.
The key differences?
-they can use the f-word uncensored.
-the guy’s hair isn’t so crazy.
-the interviewees talk funny.
-the boardroom is a much cheaper version, without the mahogany walls.
-there’s no nicknames like “The Donald” – he’s addressed as Sir. No, sir, not as in yes, sir. As in Sir, like Knights of the Roundtable Sir. It seems many people in the boardrooms have multiple titles and initials after their names. I thought maybe they were qualifications and I was just under qualified – still a year away from being a CPA. But, nope, he’s probably doing them a favor by having them call him sir and not Lord or Duke or Knight of Her Majesty or other seemingly crazy, but very true stuff.

I haven’t printed out my application to be on the show yet, since we don’t have a printer at home. But that could work to my advantage, since that way I can print it, complete it, and send it off all at work, where Bree won’t be able to get it and tear it up. The only bad thing is I’d have to find someone to tape the episodes and mail them back to you, since you probably don’t have BBC 4 or even Sky.

Thursday
Have you ever been walking out of a revolving door at the same time someone else was walking in? Did you feel, just for a moment, a personal connection? To think that the two of you, complete strangers, joined together to complete a congruent mission. In a world at war and especially in an impersonal city like London, it’s nice to know that we do still have an opportunity to treat our fellow man with respect.

Friday, March 18, 2005

Our first houseguests!

Saturday Mar 12

Today Sister & M arrived to see us – we were so excited to see them and to have our first houseguests. They were quite exhausted, but we managed to keep them awake all day – sort of. We rode the train out to Windsor Castle where we took a short tour and then stayed around for Evensong at the church. The special music was performed by a boy’s choir from up the road. It was a nice journey back in time.

We had hot drinks to warm us up at a small café – yummy for carmel steamers. After getting home and eating pizza and pasta, there wasn’t much done before bedtime. Hopefully the girls won’t be jet-lagged in the morning.

Sunday Mar 13

We blasted some Shane Bernard to wake the girls up after we got tired of waiting on them – apparently they slept pretty well. Thanks Jeannie for the airbed – it’s working quite well.

We sauntered down to the church down the road again. I think Sister & M found the people quite friendly.

It was a pretty eventful lunch since the oven cut out in the middle of cooking our baked potatoes. But eventually we finished them off in the microwave. It was our first meal hosting people in our own home.

Kensington Gardens and Hyde Park made for a very pleasant afternoon. Apparently the girls brought sunshine with them from Texas.

At night, we visited a large church with lots of young people – St. Helen’s. It was a very pleasant experience and Sharon and I had an opportunity to try to speak a little French with one of the girls we met.

Monday Mar 14
Surprise! Whether they wanted me to be there or not, I’m not sure, but I took the day off and hung out with Sharon and Mindy. By hang out, I mean walked a lot. We went to the Tower Bridge, Tower of London, Shakespeare’s Globe, Millenium Bridge, Parliament, Big Ben, Trafalgar Square among other things… We ate fish and chips and shepherd’s pie – too of the most British meals you can get. We missed Bree, but picked her up from work and took her home to watch an episode of, you guessed it 24.

Tues Mar 15
Back to work. Sharon and Mindy cooked us a WONDERFUL meal, complete with chocolate covered strawberries. AND they let us lick the chocolate bowl. They actually got to see the Queen today and apparently really enjoyed Westminster Abby and going to Harrod’s.

Wed Mar 16
Another day off work. The young pastor took off and hung out with us. We climbed to the top of St. Paul’s Cathedral and then ate lunch with Bree at Covent Gardens. We toured the British Museum, feeling somewhat overwhelmed by how much stuff is there. From Egyptian mummies to ancient coins, there’s quite a collection of artifacts. My favorite thing to read about and see was the Rosetta stone. I always had wondered how people figure out languages that aren’t used any more when no one is alive to explain them. We capped off the night with The Producers, the first stage comedy I’ve been to. I must say I laughed a fair amount, but there was a fair amount I didn’t find that amusing either. But either way, it was Sharon and Mindy’s first experience with a Broadway/West End show. I think they enjoyed it. Maybe next time they’ll see a more classic show.

Thurs. March 17
Alas, our guests left us this morning. And as far as we know, they made it home. It was so much fun having them. So then I had to work long hours to catch up. We watched 24 and made a couple calls on Skype. Congrats to Jake who finally called us with a microphone – the first time he called he could hear us, but he would just talk to us through IM.

Friday March 18
Without the girls around, our lives aren’t quite as exciting. We worked, ate, watched tv, and slept.

Monday, March 14, 2005

Major Assignment at Work & Bree's blogging debut

Tues March 9
My assigment for today as a new staffer was to hold a table for our team to watch the big football match - Chelsea versus Barcelona. They assured me afterwards that it was one of the best matches I'll ever watch. Chelsea jumped out to a 3-0 lead, which was cut to 3-2 all before halftime. Because of the tiebreaker rules about away goals, Chelsea had to score a goal in the last 15 minutes to advance to the semifinal. This was apparently a brilliant win, as it validated the hundreds of millions that the Russian owner has plowed into what traditionally had not been a very successful team. One interesting cultural difference: they always list the home team on the top of the scoreboard, the opposite of the way it is in the states.

Monday March 8
We both managed to breakaway from work early today! We stopped by the nail place for Bree to get hers removed, and still were eating dinner at the early hour of 7:45. Since most of our cooking involves a 30-minute wait in the oven, we did get all the dishes washed and the laundry run again.

March 1-7 By Bree
Quick recap of the latest highlights: Goat curry and 6 hours of church on Sunday, our trunks came on Tuesday (whoop for pillows and a hairdryer), Matt had alligator with his international team on Wednesday, we went to a pre-March Madness party hosted by the European equivalent of ESPN and taped a commercial for A&M on Thursday, and on Saturday we had real Mexican food (our first since Abeulos with Matt’s parents the day after our wedding!) and watched part of the Tech vs OU game but since it didn’t start until 11pm we didn’t watch much.

It was also my birthday this week – thanks for all the emails and calls, especially the one from my two dear cousins (who know who they are) that left a message that I couldn’t quite understand but I just know that it was them calling to say Happy Birthday. I also got hangars (the good kind!) from a very special lady. Matt sent me some beautiful red with yellow tips tulips to work.

Thursday, March 10, 2005

Beginning to be a little cultured...

(Sorry for posting this week out of order, but at least now you have plenty to read, and we're almost caught up to real time!!!)

MONDAY Feb 7
The commute from Weybridge, which is on the Southwest of London, was about 45 minutes. Matt spent the day catching up on a variety of tasks on the Internet. Bree met with her performance manager - good marks at this point. Work is starting to pick up a little, but busy season is still a couple weeks away for her client. I tried shepherd's pie at a small restaurant and loved it. The beans, meat and bread casserole of sorts warms your insides. I read a number of great intelligent magazines and newspapers throughout the day. Now that my formal education is over I have much more time to be an educated person. I think that one of the best donations someone could make to a campus is high level magazines to be out in the open. They have them in the library but they're needed at the bus stops, the cafeterias and the bathrooms. Pizza delivery made a delectable meal as we hadn't eaten any in a month besides out of the oven. A documentary on the national healthcare system was dessert. We agreed with our host, a nurse herself, that the US system, though flawed looks much better.

TUESDAY Feb 8
We didn't know they'd actually contact our character references and landlords before approving us to rent. Thanks Mark & Rachel. And the bank now decides that they want our marriage certificate. I also go to Middlesex to claim any mail we received at our temporary address. More computer tasks and more work preceded pork chops. While researching bus and train timetables I discover that there is actually a bus that runs from in front of our flat to the front door of Bree's office in 46 minutes. We'll have to try it to verify after we move in. A very intense and gory CSI Las Vegas captured our attention - they're so much better than Miami. Our host has promised to show us the best movie on leadership, which I've never heard of, so we have something to look forward to this weekend.

WEDNESDAY Feb 9
Today was not a very fruitful day - I became extremely frustrated with technology and didn't accomplish much. But I did confirm that I will be starting work on Monday, so I'll be moving off of Bree's welfare program. It was fun while it lasted. I watched with anticipation as ticket checkers moved through the train - but the girl who didn't have a ticket just pulled out some pounds and paid up. What fun is that? I wanted to see some excitement. Later, I saw a very unhappy girl yelling at the ticket agents... Honesty pays on ticket-check day. Bree and I ate dinner out for only the second time since we've been here. We walked around the Liecester Square area - pronounced 'Lester' according to people who would apparently know such trivialities. Mel says it's like the ce in peace. Oh well- it's more fun to say Lie-chester. We unknowingly were only a block away from Chinatown when we were lured into an all-you-can-eat Chinese buffet called Mr. Wu's. We probably had our first and last meal with Mr. Wu.

THURS FEB 10
Our hosts are COMPLETELY spoiling us. Tonight it was steak. We watched Vertical Limit - they play a lot more recent releases during primetime. We've seen more movies in a month than the last two years. Bree experienced her first day of "busy season."

FRI FEB 11
Matt ventured into another part of the city today after meeting up with Josh, a friend from A&M on his way to do a medical internship in China. Together they met with an American missionary and explored Lebanese food in the form of a swarma, which is kind of like a Lebanese fajita. He proved to be a wonderful tour guide. That night's agenda: get Bree well. So we relaxed to the wonderful film A Beautiful Mind. Could you imagine really having that much flowing through your brain?

SAT FEB 12
Today we had our first visitor, a great friend originally from Oman. We weren't very good hosts, as we didn't even know where to find a good restaurant. Together we decided that people work too hard or at least too much. Afterwards, we went to the theatre to see Les Miserables. Even from the cheap seats, that is such a gripping epic of justice and grace - Bree almost stayed awake. Chinatown, with all of its fresh meat displayed in the windows, is a fun sight to see. We tried a little duck and a little lemon chicken. PF Chang's ranks higher on our list. Quick- name your famous British actor! The British were giving out the Bafta's right around the corner, the equivalent of the Academy Awards. I was out voted, so we did stand in the mob waiting for a glimpse of people I wouldn't have even recognized. We tried to sit and order dessert but aparently it's not kosher here to not order a full meal. That's right, they kicked us out for the crime of not getting an entrée. Whew, what a day.

SUN FEB 13
Another less than ideal church visit, but we're confident that we're one church closer to finding the one we'll attend. A beautiful lazy Sunday afternoon ensued, our apologies to those of you who we still owe thank you notes. Another dark cloud enveloped the country as England once again collapsed, unable to make a kick when it mattered against France. Dinner- excellent chicken of course with baked potatoes and mixed veggies.

MON Feb 14
Somebody got flowers at work, and it wasn't me, even though it was my first day on the job. I work in a very nice office, right off the tube station, making my commute slightly shorter than Bree's. We went to a nice little restaurant with our hosts and had our first pasta cooked by someone else. Happy Valentine's Day!

TUES FEB 15
Another day of work. We met up for lunch with some of the interns and sampled crepe sandwiches, suprisingly good, though the wait made us have a European lunch "hour."

WED FEB 16


THURS FEB 17
Cheers from the Aggie A&M Club! Tonight we met up with about 25 Aggies residing in London for some length of time. Unfortunately Chiquito did not live up to Texas standards for Mexican food, but I guess what can you expect. I was somewhat distracted by my communications with the bank to determine the fastest way to get money transferred - can you believe that it still takes a week to clear funds from the US to the UK? We returned to our mailing address - 92 Middlesex, all the way up in the Northeast corner of Central London - to obtain our sterling debit cards! Bet you don't have one of those. So it was a late night.

FRI FEB 18
Would you believe that we worked today? I sure miss no Friday classes. I made it through my first week and I'm sure I learned more than you did about SEC filings. For lunch my manager treated my team to a Sushi bar. I'd never been to one of these places where they have the food come by on a conveyer belt and you just grab what you want. I'm addicted to a book, Titan about the life of John D Rockefeller. He was one of my favorite people to read about growing up - this book doesn't make him out to be that great of a role model however. But you may not have known that he was a very devout Baptist.


SAT FEB 19
The Full Monty. That was the name of my barbershop. An Albanian cut my hair English style, and glued what remained to my scalp. He philosophized while he clipped, but didn't really know where Texas was, except that it was a state. Bree got hers done at the Toni and Guy, where the hairdressers cut hair to finance their real job of dressing up for work everyday. It was quite the hip place, though I don't think I'd be let onto the client's premises if I adopted their fashion. Hers looks great of course; mine should be better after I sleep on it. We finally got around to watching 12 o'clock high, which was quite enjoyable. We also scouted out Joey and Two and a half Men. Joey made me laugh considerably more than I'd expected.

SUN FEB 20
Churches here are certainly not the same here as back home, but we went to a nice church today that we'll probably return to. A nice old man brought all the American couples he could find over to meet us. Everyone was very friendly - especially over tea afterwards. We went to a nice little Italian restaurant in Richmond for lunch. Chinese take-out for dinner. Laundry was done, perhaps for the last time with a dryer, as our new place is lacking. We had our weekly dose of football. Panic Room and Carena, Carena were the movies of the weekend.

MON FEB 21
First, the guy at the bank tried to say that their system was still down and he couldn't issue a banker's draft, which had been his story on Friday. My icy stare was enough and I didn't even have to gripe before he scurried away. It took him awhile, but he returned with what I needed. Amazing. Then, our real estate agent was 45 minutes late to our contract signing. Nevertheless, it's a done deal and we get the keys on Wednesday. We were interrupted by the screams of an Aussie girl in the office. Everything was fine; she was just a bit thrilled to see snow. What a great day. And shrimp creole to finish it. Most importantly, Bree obtained an appointment for us to get our National Health insurance number after two weeks of relentless phone calls. Yay nationalized health insurance.

TUES FEB 22
Nothing but work today. And Burger King, since Bree worked late. Plus, the trains were an hour behind schedule. More snow today, but it's not really sticking. It just makes me want to get skiing on the Alps sooner. The big accomplishment was getting my own ID card at the client site, which also functions as a lunch ticket everyday I'm there. Currently I'm on a team with six unique nationalities represented. This certainly generates a wealth of fascinating conversations topics. They lokked at me with blank faces when I said cleats, over here they're boots. One coworker was severely disappointed to hear that Texans hunt doves, the symbol for peace, while some of the males didn't know what quail were. But hunting kangaroos sounded like a lot more fun.

WED Moving Day
Well it's finally true - we have our first home. We dropped a couple suitcases off before work, and Bree quickly got her first glimpse of our place. The windows and brightness are what appeal to her most, as I knew they would. That evening we journeyed back to East London to pickup another bag each from the interns' place and walked up to hill to our through an imposing snowstorm. Gleefully we unpacked and stowed away

Tuesday, March 08, 2005

Wanna go to the library or clean up the apartment?

February 24, 2005

The one night Bree got off on time, I wound up working late. Such is the life of the working couple. But the weekend is close at hand.

Today we left the client to go eat a fantastic lunch – salmon and crab cakes for me, whoop!

February 25, 2005

Friday night is not always what it used to be, though I still say TGIF. I did finally correct my issues getting Windows registered with Microsoft. Just in case you’re ever wondering, your certificate of authenticity if Windows came preinstalled can be found attached to the outside of your computer. I wish I would have known that 4 weeks ago.

Basically my problem was that I owned Windows XP Professional, but had used a Windows XP Home CD to restore the laptop from vivacious viruses. So my code wouldn’t work and I couldn’t install from my Professional disc, because it was an older version of Windows that the one I’d already installed. None of the call centers could solve my problem, telling me that I was using an illegal license and that I would need to reformat my hard drive before installing Windows XP Professional and therefore lose all of my files. Finally, someone mentioned the attached COA which was on the bottom of the computer – within inches of me the entire time.

For those of you who care less about computer problems, there’s not much to share about today. We watched Spiderman II on our recently rescued computer, our substitute for not having a television at the moment. I bought some groceries in the train station and enjoyed a few minutes in the Internet café before they closed at 9.

February 26, 2005

Yuk! Unfortunately our apartment was not as clean as it was supposed to be we realized every time we opened a new cupboard for the first time.

Very early in the day however, we did get our promised visit from the repairer of the hot water heater. He slowed the water flow and said cheers. Over here they don’t have room to dedicate an entire closet to a hot water heater and they’re always worried about the environment. The result is that we just have a heater in with the gas broiler that hopefully gets the water hot before it comes out of the faucet. We’re slowly learning the secret of not turning the water on all the way to prolong a more steady stream of warm water. It’s really not as bad as I expected at first and instead of somebody taking all the hot water, you only have to worry about the flame cutting off if it thinks you’ve finished or if the heater stops.

Bree was more excited today than any day since the Laker’s game – we received our Wandsworth Library card, which allows us to check out up to 15 books each for three weeks at a time. The way she looks at it, that gives her an effective capacity of 30 books, or more than one per day. Her joy was indescribable.

But we did very little reading… just lots of cleaning. This first required a bus trip to ASDA, the Wal-Mart of England. And it’s Wal-Mart all the way down to the smiley faces and long lines. I’d never seen so many people in a store before, even at the HEB in College Station.

We picked up all the necessary cleaning supplies and some chicken for dinner.

The worst task was defrosting the freezer. Since we’d already bought stuff for the fridge, we couldn’t just leave it for a day or two, plus we didn’t have enough towels or a dryer or the will to carry it downstairs.

So, we went about things the hard way – pouring hot water over the racks and scraping away the three-years of build up. We doubled the capacity of our freezer and it only took 2 hours of man and woman power.

We changed the electricity, gas, and water into our names. We’ll wait till next week to find out about the telephone, Internet, and council tax. For now, we have a wireless connection that we can pirate if we have any urgent needs. We need to get our own hook up soon as we’re too Gen-X to live without e-mail and IM.

It’s beginning to truly be our first home, as our previous hosts brought over some more of our stuff. Our trunks from the States have been delayed, as it seems that there was a customs form we needed to have filled out. So, we continue on without the luxury of our electric blanket which is forthcoming and our pillows, which we desperately miss.

But you all sleep well tonight in your cozy little beds with your efficient central heating systems and your cable television! Spoiled Americans! J/k – our standard of living will be back to normal quite soon. After all, Monday is pay day. Our first real income as young professionals and that certainly calls for a celebration.

February 27, 2005

What a day is all I could say at the end of the experience!

We went to church just down the street at a small Baptist church. They repeatedly apologized to us as first time guests for the lack of heating, which had just broken down that week but would be repaired promptly they promised.

The keyboardist was missing, so we sang along to MIDI files and the 50 other congregants. The preacher for the day was a local seminary student originally from Columbia. His native-Spanish was evident throughout the 45-minute inspection of Jesus turning water into wine. He did a fabulous job explaining both the literal and figurative implications of Jesus’ first miracle, and shared some of his own struggles in understanding Jesus words. He explained that the water, held in clay jars, was intended for the Jewish rites of purification, which were a man-made attempt at sanctification. Turning them into wine, symbolizing Jesus’ blood, reminds us that our feeble attempts at godliness have been replaced with the opportunity to rely on the blood of Christ for our salvation.

There was also a short testimony by a fellow seminary student originally from Iowa, who boasted that Iowa is known only for hogs and corn. So true.

We visited with both of them after the service. From the first, we learned about the intricacies of the drug trade and current attempts by the president at reform. He laughed as he recounted the times he’s been asked for drugs once his national identity was revealed. He said to look out if his contributions the church ever seemed a bit large!

The Iowa boy is returning home in April upon completion of his first year. A girl back home has interrupted his original intents.

They both attend Spurgeon’s College, named after the great Charles Spurgeon.

The church actually has three pastors at the moment. The second one we met is a retired missionary who has come out of retirement to work with the church. He and his wife were quite pleasant and have had many friends from the SBC that they worked with in Brazil, so our Texas roots were a plus in their minds.

They invited us to lunch at another Baptist church just up the road, where the minister was retiring. SHE had been there for 21 years and was now headed to Africa to work with a very troubled nation. We thought that the lunch would be starting right away – rather we found ourselves sitting on the second row for the next two and a half hours of her tribute service. There was dancing and singing and clapping and shouting and joking and crying and testimonials and skits… we felt like crying because this lady was leaving and we’d never even met her.

And then the party began. There were balloons every where and the tables were completely decorated for the mid-afternoon feast. Many of the church members had Jamaican heritage, so Bree and I both tasted several new foods, including the church’s renown goat curry. Quite good, I’d noted before I knew it was goat. And even after.

So our little visit to the church down the street turned out to be an all-day excursion. We scrapped our trip to the grocery store and relaxed for the evening.